last night i photographed another chinese wedding. i love documenting traditions such as the tea ceremony and the li shi money in the red envelope. the double happiness symbol was present throughout the day, adorning the door to the wedding ceremony as well as in front of the bride and groom during the actual ceremony. the bride and groom gave me a wedding favor before i wrapped up shooting. it was a small tea strainer / tea infuser shaped like a house. a tea house, get it?! if you are looking for a cute high quality wedding favor that is good for any wedding including chinese weddings, these rock! you can buy the tea house tea infuser with its own little drip tray here.
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chinese wedding favors
March 7, 2010blue & travel themed multi-cultural chinese american wedding by heather parker photography
November 25, 2009remember theresa & bob? perhaps you remember the bertoia chairs from their engagement session at millenium park?
Fast forward a few months, and they send me their wedding invitation – it is a passport! This is so fitting for a multicultural couple that clearly loves to travel. I remember immediately taking snapshots of the invite (below) with my iphone and sending it to a few of my creative friends. Theresa is an architect and with a design background like that, she put her fiance to work, and together made the coolest wedding invitation I have ever seen. During their wedding, guests were encouraged to bring their own passports and get stamped with a rubber stamp from various tables as a way to meet and mingle with other friends and family. Being selected as their Chicago wedding photographer was such a treat since I got to see so many cool, creative elements and details on their wedding day.
theresa got ready with her bridesmaids at her grandmother’s house.
theresa’s grandmother had a bunch of cool vintage furniture that i was in love with, including this fun velvet chair.
her flower girl gave her a big hug as they were getting ready.
at st. giles church the ring bearer and flower girl walked down the aisle flawlessly. no tantrums, no dropping stuff, it was perfection! on a side note they call the bride theresa tee tee! its so cute to hear them squeal tee tee!!!
the groom watched as his bride made her entrance
the mother of the bride listened to the pastor’s comments about marriage. he created a dialog with friends and family which everyone seemed to enjoy.




at theresa and bob’s wedding, they had placecards on a table that was covered in coins from various currencies to go with their passport travel themed wedding.
in chinese tradition, they kept with the theme of luck, and provided each guest with an opportunity to win instantly. i love their choice of blue. i shot another multicultural chinese american wedding (this time in Boston) that also chose blue as their wedding color over the summer.
here is one of the passports that had gotten stamped as this guest visited other tables
the maid of honor did a toast
and the bride and groom were laughing quite a bit at some of the stories that were told
nice big cake and a nice big kiss
it was pretty easy to catch candid moments at this wedding, lots of laughter all night
here is a photo from the first dance
in addition to wearing a white dress, theresa changed into a blue cheongsam / qi pao chinese wedding dress that was originally the mother of the groom’s
she also changed into a red qi pao wedding dress as well
theresa has compiled a list of her wedding planning details below so that you can see all her Chicago wedding vendors:
VENUE River Forest Country Club 15W468 Grand Pl. Elmhurst, IL 60126 (630) 279-5444
CEREMONY St. Giles Catholic Catholic Church 1025 Columbian Avenue, Oak Park, Illinois 60302. Phone, 708-383-3430
CANTOR Bride’s Sister-In-Law, Maria Hercik
CELEBRANT Father Michael Gabriel, currently located at St. Josaphat Parish in Lincoln Park at 2311 N Southport Ave, Chicago
PHOTOGRAPHER Chicago Weding Photographer eather Parker Photography
DJ Brett Anderson with SoundQ Productions
FLOWERS The Elite Flower (wholesaler for Trader Joe’s, Whole Foods, Jewel; arrangements put together by a friend
CAKE (Rhino & Ela’s) Pastryhouse 7545 W Montrose Ave, Norridge, IL 60706
DRESS (BRIDE) White One (one of the Pronovias lines)
DRESS (BRIDESMAIDS) Mori Lee (Purchased at House of Brides – Schaumburg)
DRESS (FLOWER GIRL) David’s Bridal
FAVORS Instant scratch-off lottery tickets
HAIR STYLIST Erika Romero (630)805-1272
INVITATIONS Carlson Craft – Black Tie Duo
PASSPORT INVITATIONS Design & assembly by the Bride & Groom: Combination of Adobe Photoshop, Microsoft Powerpoint, QuarkXPress (The materials for the covers were purchased online, at Michael’s Arts & Crafts & Target)
JEWELERS Bride’s engagement ring: Dimend SCAASI 5 South Wabash Avenue 17th Floor, Chicago, IL 60603 (312) 857-1700
Bride’s wedding band: Golden Crown Jewelers 1 N Wabash Ave Chicago, IL 60602 (312) 782-8633
Groom’s wedding band: COSTCO
LIMO Elite Chicago Limo 400 E. Randolph St. Chicago, IL 60601 (312) 201-1055
MAKEUP ARTIST Beth Follert
NIGHT OWL SNACK Home Run Inn Pizza
SLIDESHOW Bride’s brother, using Adobe Premier Pro
TABLE ACTIVITY Rubber stamps: Michael’s, Stamp pads: Oriental Trading Company
TUXEDO (GROOM) Armani Formal Wear at Neiman Marcus
TUXEDO (GROOMSMEN) Mens Wearhouse
chinese wedding in chicago by heather parker photography
October 31, 2009i always love having opportunity of shooting cultural weddings. i met with charlotte last year and was so excited to be hired to photograph her and mike’s wedding. earlier this year i photographed charlotte and mike’s engagement shoot, and since charlotte and mike travel frequently for work, we did a lot of communication via email regarding the details of the wedding day and her photography plans and ideas. in addition to wedding-related chatter, charlotte, being a foodie, she gave me some great tips on where to find true Québécois poutine made with real cheese curds.
charlotte is from singapore and her family spoke mandarin, while mike’s family spoke cantonese. i love being able to document cultural and family traditions, and this wedding in particular had some especially fun parts to photograph. i witnessed some hilarious games and a pretty tea ceremony which happened before the traditional style wedding ceremony that i am used to. before tea, the groom was quizzed by bride’s friends and family and had to partake in humorous demands before the mother of the bride released her daughter to the groom.
i asked charlotte about some of the details of her wedding day and she said:
The Chinese tea ceremony was requested by my mom. Basically it is a way for us to thank our families for raising us. The groom comes to the bride’s house to collect the bride. But the bride’s friends and family will try and block the groom and his men. The groom will have to go a series of games to prove his love for the bride. At the end, the girls will negotiate a price for the bride. Usually the number ends in 99. So $299, $399, etc.
When the groom claims the bride, they are supposed to go to the groom’s family to do the tea ceremony. Then they return to the bride’s family to do the tea ceremony. We did it all in the same room to save time!
Mike and I are so laid back, so we wanted fun pictures. Mike requested the lakefront shots and I like indoor shots and vintage looking locales, so Union Station was awesome! I love the look and feel of your photos! Very different from the others I have seen and very imaginative! That was ultimately the reason why we picked you!
after their wedding, the bride and groom headed to Curaçao for their honeymoon where they went to explore the island’s shores via scuba diving.
婚礼摄影师在芝加哥
中文和粤语的新娘和新郎
charlotte purchased adorable containers for the wedding rings which were enscribed with to have and to hold.
the bride’s mother watched over over the groom during some lighthearted games
the groom answered questions regarding his new bride
mike and char were a very easy-going couple – they joked around a lot and had a blast all day!
two families came together during a tea ceremony overlooking famous michigan avenue. they had one of the best hotel suites i have ever photographed in.
charlotte takes tea to present to the families.
i heard someone mutter that some of the tea had some wasabi in it!
the groom leaves the room before the bride changes into a white wedding gown.
simple bouquet of flowers to match a simple elegant dress.
the groom waits in the hotel lobby for a scheduled “first look” as the bride descended down a grand glowing staircase.
we took a limo to museum campus and played a little game of trust over lake michigan.
the chicago skyline is in the distance as the groom holds on tight to his bride.
charlotte forgot the disposable adhesive heating pads in her hotel room to keep her bridesmaids warm for outdoor photos so we went to union station after museum campus. she had prepared for inclement weather by buying a photo permit in advance for union station so that we would have no issues if we needed to use the location as a setting for her wedding photos.
the groom looked dapper don’t you think?
the groom looked dapper, don’t you think?
we wrapped up our 90 minute photo shoot by heading back to michigan ave and the bride and groom were cuffed by a chicago cop (all in good fun of course!).
the newlyweds had beautiful rings which i photographed on the stem of a tulip.
cocktail hour…
what a cute nephew and a proud father!
here are some of the wedding reception details including favors, cupcake centerpieces, and an overall theme of red – the color of happiness.
and a toast…
and a cake cutting and a cake smoosh followed by a smooch.
guests seemed to be having a great time
charlotte’s matron of honor was just as fun as she, and raised the bar on the dancefloor getting everyone going!
the bride and groom were a very fun laid-back couple to work with, and definitely know how to throw a party!
wedding ceremony & reception: marriott magnificent mile
makeup: monique madrid styling
dj: one stop dj (peggy liao, speaks mandarin and taiwanese)
alterations on white gown: Ms. Couture
alterations on qi pao/chengosam: oriental fine tailor


charlotte purchased adorable containers for the wedding rings which were enscribed with to have and to hold.
the bride’s mother watched over over the groom during some lighthearted games
the groom answered questions regarding his new bride
mike and char were a very easy-going couple – they joked around a lot and had a blast all day!
two families came together during a tea ceremony overlooking famous michigan avenue. they had one of the best hotel suites i have ever photographed in.
charlotte takes tea to present to the families.
i heard someone mutter that some of the tea had some wasabi in it!
the groom leaves the room before the bride changes into a white wedding gown.
simple bouquet of flowers to match a simple elegant dress.
the groom waits in the hotel lobby for a scheduled “first look” as the bride descended down a grand glowing staircase.
we took a limo to museum campus and played a little game of trust over lake michigan.
the chicago skyline is in the distance as the groom holds on tight to his bride.
charlotte forgot the
the groom looked dapper don’t you think?
the groom looked dapper, don’t you think?
we wrapped up our 90 minute photo shoot by heading back to michigan ave and the bride and groom were cuffed by a chicago cop (all in good fun of course!).
the newlyweds had beautiful rings which i photographed on the stem of a tulip.
cocktail hour…
what a cute nephew and a proud father!
here are some of the wedding reception details including favors, cupcake centerpieces, and an overall theme of red – the color of happiness.
and a toast…
and a cake cutting and a cake smoosh followed by a smooch.
guests seemed to be having a great time
charlotte’s matron of honor was just as fun as she, and raised the bar on the dancefloor getting everyone going!
the bride and groom were a very fun laid-back couple to work with, and definitely know how to throw a party!